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Hurricane Relief from the IRS

Fred Vilbig - Wednesday, September 20, 2017


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     Retirement plans are designed for… well, retirement. You put tax-deferred income into the plan to grow tax deferred. Beginning at age 59 ½, you can start withdrawing plan assets and just pay the income tax on what you take out. The assets that remain in the plan continue to grow tax free. Beginning at age 70 ½, a plan beneficiary must begin taking out a minimum amount (the “required minimum distribution” or “RMD”) which is a pro rata amount based on the participants life expectancy.

     If a participant begins withdrawing money too soon, there is a 10% early withdrawal penalty. Some (but not all) plans allow participants to borrow funds, but there are restrictions. If the plan includes the required language, you can borrow up to the lesser of $50,000 or one half of the amount in the plan. You have to pay the loan back in five years in at least quarterly equal payments of principal and interest. Finally, the loan must be evidenced by a legally enforceable agreement.

     In two recent Announcements (Announcement 2017-11 and 2017-13), the IRS has loosened these requirements for victims of Hurricane Harvey in Hurricane Erma. People who live or work in one of the Texas or Florida counties identified by FEMA for individual assistance are eligible. The IRS wants employers to try to comply with the requirements, but they sympathize (a word rarely used in the context of the IRS) with the victims of the storms. Therefore, eligible individuals can access their retirement assets to make it through the storms and to rebuild.

     I recognize that St. Louis was not affected by the storms. However some readers may have family in these areas. If so, they may want to get in touch with them to let them know that they can contact their employers about accessing these retirement funds. Yes they will have to pay it back, but it is a source of funds during very difficult times.


IRA Beneficiaries

Fred Vilbig - Monday, September 18, 2017



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     Whenever clients with trust-based estate plans sign their documents, we handle their real estate with a deed of some sort and their stuff (i.e., their tangible personal property) with an assignment.

     With regard to their other assets, we typically don’t get actively involved. As Abraham Lincoln once said (and you should always quote Honest Abe to make a point), “A lawyer’s time is his stock in trade.” That is, all a lawyer has to sell is his or her time, so if they do work for someone, they are going to charge them.

     To keep costs down, we give clients a detailed letter about funding their trusts. We tell them to go to their bank, their investment advisor, their broker, and their insurance agent. Clients just need to show them the letter and say “Do what he says.”

     That almost always works… except with retirement accounts. Retirement accounts include IRAs,         401(k)s, and 403(b) accounts to name the most common ones. As you probably know, these are accounts in which you can deposit pre-tax money, let it grow tax deferred, and take it out after you reach 60. You only owe tax on what you take out, when you take it out. Of course, once you reach 70 ½ you have to take out your “required minimum distribution” (your “RMD”), but anything left in the account grows tax-deferred. It’s a good retirement plan many people take advantage of.

     I’m going to focus on IRAs here because that is where most of the money ends up. If you are participating in a 401(k) plan, when you retire, they’ll probably make you roll it over into an IRA. You’ll have to be careful doing that too since there are time limits.

     When someone has a trust-based estate plan, if they’re married, we always tell them to name his or her spouse as the initial IRA beneficiary. That allows for the maximum planning opportunities on the death of the first spouse to die. The surviving spouse can do a tax-free rollover, and there may be some tax benefits available. You want to leave your options open.

     But on the death of an IRA owner where there isn’t a surviving spouse, I tell clients to name the trust as the beneficiary. In 2015, the US Supreme Court ruled that an inherited IRA is liable for bankruptcy claims. I haven’t seen the cases, but I’d have to think that regular lawsuits won’t be far behind. Running an IRA through a trust can give a beneficiary some asset protection.

     Here’s where we get the questions. Some financial planners worry that if you name a trust is the beneficiary of an IRA, on the death of the employee/owner, all of the assets in the IRA will become immediately taxable. That is not true.

     In 1999 the IRS promulgated some regulations to cover this very point. They said that if your trust contained their magic language, it would not cause the immediate taxation of 100% of the IRA. But what the IRS said was that the trust could not hold on to the IRA distributions. If the trustee received the RMD, it had to pass it through the trust and pay it to the named beneficiary. If there are multiple beneficiaries, then the IRA administrator can break the IRA into equal subaccounts for each beneficiary, but each payment still had to pass through the trust to the appropriate beneficiary.

     That has been the law since 1999. I can point to the section in the trust agreement with the magic language, but we still get pushback. Maybe it just seems like it’s too good to be real, but here it’s real.

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Hiding the Will

Fred Vilbig - Wednesday, August 30, 2017



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     Sarah (not her real name) has had a rather difficult life. She married a guy who turned out not to be Prince Charming. He divorced her and left her in financial difficulties. She’s had a number of jobs, but none of them really paid well.Just enough to pay her bills. She’s had a tough time.

     When mom and dad were getting older, Sarah volunteered to move in to help them continue to live at home for as long as they could. Like most of us, mom and dad did not want to go into the nursing home. Sarah’s siblings were okay with this arrangement. It meant that someone would be in the home at least part of the time to help take care of their parents.

     None of the other siblings know if Sarah had any conversations with their parents regarding compensation. She did get free room and board while she was living there, but there doesn’t appear to of been anything in writing with regard to any further arrangement. I think the siblings thought that Sarah was doing it to help out, but also to help her get back on her feet.

     Dad died a few years ago, and mom died recently. After the funeral, Sarah’s siblings began asking some questions about what was going to happen to the house and their parents other assets. Sarah has suggested that it should all be hers since she took care of her parents. Her siblings are okay with Sarah getting something, but all? The siblings think that Sarah had her name added to their parents’ accounts, but we know that the house is in their parents’ names. Sarah says there’s a will, but she seems to be giving everyone the runaround regarding producing it. It probably says something that she doesn’t want it to say. The siblings now want to talk to an attorney.

     If the will of a Missouri resident is not probated within a year of that person’s death, it cannot be admitted to probate. Filing a will for probate is important.

     If anyone has the will of a Missouri decedent in their possession, the law says that they “shall” file it with the proper probate court. If the person having custody of the will doesn’t produce it, then the heirs need to petition the court to open an intestate estate – that is, an estate without a will. They then need to file a motion with the court to issue a summons and compel the person to produce the will. That means a visit by the sheriff. And if the person still refuses to produce the will, it could mean a stay in jail.

     Needless to say, it’s not a good thing to hide a will

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Fred Vilbig - Wednesday, August 30, 2017


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     I once had a client whose business consisted of a list of licensed medical professionals. Hospitals and other medical facilities were in chronic need of these professional, but they were unable to hire enough of them. The professionals in question usually did not want to be full-time employees; rather, they just wanted to work part-time. My client identified healthcare facilities that needed these professionals and then let the professionals know of the opportunities.

     This was actually a lot of work. The owner was constantly meeting with different facilities and working out the details and then recruiting professionals to fill the jobs. She wanted to get paid for her work. The healthcare facilities wanted to cut costs by getting around my client, so we had all the professionals sign agreements saying that they agreed not to take a job at one of these healthcare facilities. This kind of an agreement is often referred to as a “non-compete”.

     Simply stated, a non-compete agreement prohibits a former employee from competing against a former employer. Courts don’t necessarily like this kind of thing. It’s kind of un-American to keep someone from working. However, courts realize that businesses have the right to reasonably protect real business interests. If a company invests in an employee by training him or her to do a job or provide them with the names of customers who have been discovered through hard work, courts will protect these kinds of business interests. However, a non-compete restriction is not unlimited.

     These restrictions need to be reasonable as to time and distance. If a business’ legitimate market is only in Chesterfield, a court will not enforce a non-compete against a former employee setting up shop in Columbia, Missouri. And if a company’s customer list completely changes every two years, the court is not going to enforce a 10 year non-compete. Still, depending on the circumstances, non-competes can be an effective way to protect business interests.

     A related but separate agreement is a non-solicitation agreement. You commonly see these in conjunction with non-competes. There are two aspects of a non-solicitation agreement: customers and employees. The former employer clearly wants to prevent a former employee from stealing his or her customers. However, in addition, employers also want to stop ex-employees from stealing other employees. A non-solicitation agreement helps with that. Courts appear to be more willing to enforce these kinds of provisions than non-competes.

     Anyone in business will tell you that it is tough. It can take years to develop your product or service. And once you have your product, you need good employees to help your business grow and prosper. And finally, you need a customer base. All of these things take a long time and a lot of hard work to develop. Business owners need to protect them all. That’s where non-competes and non-solicitation agreements come in. Important things to have.

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Addicted Beneficiaries

Fred Vilbig - Thursday, August 03, 2017



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     I try not to repeat topics in this column, but it’s been a while since I wrote about the complications from addiction, and the problem keeps raising its head. I keep seeing articles and hearing stories about the opioid crisis, and I encounter it time and again when meeting with clients. My mom was in her 70s which she told me that she still wanted a cigarette after dinner, and I had no recollection of her ever smoking. Nicotine is terribly addictive, but I understand that narcotics are even worse.

     From what I hear, people can get hooked on narcotics by using prescription painkillers while following doctors’ orders. And then there are some doctors who allegedly sell prescription painkillers to make some extra money. The US attorney general is looking into that now.

     But those “safe” drugs can be expensive. Heroin on the street is apparently pretty cheap, although you may not be comfortable with the level of quality. That is evidently not that important when someone needs a fix.A funeral director recently commented that people would be surprised to know how many deaths now are drug related.There are so many drug related deaths the County has had to rent temporary morgues to hold the bodies. Addiction is a horrible thing.

     What you don’t want is for an addict to receive a lot of money outright, but even basic trust planning may not be enough. We recently settled a dispute between a trustee and beneficiary.  I had written the trust when the client’s son was still a toddler, and now her son was approaching 22. She had died in a car wreck, and the son was the beneficiary of the trust.It was what is called a discretionary trust (the beneficiary did not have an absolute right to the trust funds), and the trustee refused to give the beneficiary any money outright. We tried to set up a plan where the trustee would directly pay the beneficiary’s landlord, health insurance provider, utilities, tuition and books, and the rehab clinic. She was willing to pay the beneficiary an allowance for food, but that was pretty small, only enough to buy basic food.

     That wasn’t enough for the beneficiary. He hired a newly minted attorney and proceeded to make the trustee’s life pretty miserable. She finally just resigned. The funny thing is that knowing what happened to her, none of the successor trustees wanted to serve. The trust is stuck in limbo until they petition the court to appoint a successor trustee. The trust has been paying a lot of legal fees, and it looks like it’s going to continue.

     When parents have children or family members with substance abuse problems, planning is critical. You don’t want to give money to the beneficiary outright. That could be like a death sentence. Instead you can provide that the trustee will only distribute trust income and principal to the beneficiary on a discretionary basis for their health, education, welfare, and support. That can put a trustee in a difficult position, so it’s probably best not to have a sibling as the trustee who will be making those decisions. I always try to keep families together, and that almost certainly will create a lot of tension in that relationship. Sometimes I’ve required beneficiaries to submit to drug testing before any distributions are made to them. Trustees can also require receipts for how previously distributed money was spent. This requires a lot of work, but it is a pretty serious situation.

     It’s sad that so many people need to deal with these issues, but it is a reality. Ignoring the problem can be deadly. Plan accordingly.

     If you would like to confidentially discuss these issues further, please feel free to contact me.

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Trinity Lutheran Church

Fred Vilbig - Thursday, July 20, 2017


     In the mid-1800s America faced a flood of somewhat unwanted immigrants, similar to today. They were Catholics fleeing crushing poverty and looking for opportunities. They not only brought their religion with them, but they also brought their tradition of education.

     Ulysses S Grant was the President during some of this time period, and he was greatly concerned. He did not want public money going to sectarian schools. This was evidently a hot issue in the day. In a speech in 1875, he proposed a Constitutional amendment to prohibit the use of public funds for religious schools or for any church groups.

     Republican Congressman James Blaine proposed such a federal amendment. Although the proposal overwhelmingly passed in the House, the Senate vote failed by four votes. The amendment then faded away never to be heard of again in the halls of Congress.

     But the idea of the amendment lived on. In 38 states, some form of what has been referred to as the “Blaine Amendment” was passed. In Missouri, Blaine language appears in two separate sections of the Missouri Constitution.

     Trinity Lutheran is a small Lutheran congregation in Boone County. It seems to serve a poor, rural population. They operate a childcare center that has a playground. The playground surface was covered with pea gravel. Falling on pea gravel is better than falling on concrete, but there are better, safer playground surfaces.

     The State of Missouri created a grant program to encourage nonprofits to install playground surfaces made from recycled tires. The purpose was both to promote child safety and also minimize waste from used tires. Trinity Lutheran applied for the grant. Although Trinity Lutheran scored in the top five of the grant applicants, the Missouri Department of Natural Resources (which administered the program) denied the application solely because Trinity Lutheran was a church, citing the Blaine Amendments.

     The church sued. It lost in both the District Court level and at the Eighth Circuit Court of Appeals. However, the US Supreme Court agreed to hear the case. Recently in a very narrowly drafted opinion, the Court found in favor of Trinity Lutheran in a 7-2 decision, declaring certain aspects of the Blaine Amendments unconstitutional. The court specifically refused to address certain issues which means more litigation will certainly follow. But at a minimum, the court held that a state can’t exclude a church from a government program solely because it is a church.

     In an interesting side note, on the same day the Court issued the Trinity Lutheran case, it remanded to the lower courts two school choice cases for consideration in light of its Trinity Lutheran ruling.

     There are many who are big advocates of the “separation of church and state” theory. They did not welcome this decision. However, it should be noted that the separation theory itself is not constitutional. It was first raised by Thomas Jefferson in an 1802 letter to a Baptist Association. He was assuring the Baptists that they had nothing to fear from government interference in the expression of their religious beliefs. The idea did not arise to a legal principle until a line of Supreme Court cases in the second half of the 20th century beginning with the Everson case in 1947.

     Where this reasoning goes from here is uncertain. There are both strong advocates and opponents of school choice, and as we have recently seen, money is tight in Missouri. Even though gambling was supposed to fund education (it ended up being a mere shell game), schools in Missouri are badly under-funded, and some schools are badly underperforming.

     The future will be interesting.

Trustees and Cats

Fred Vilbig - Thursday, June 29, 2017



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     I got a call from someone at my church a few months ago. They had received a report about a parishioner. Allegedly a financial adviser was taking advantage of an elderly woman. They asked me to check into it. I did some investigating and found out that contrary to what I heard, the financial adviser was providing excellent service and was even providing a lot of personal help as well.

     However, in the course of my investigations, I got the impression that the woman needed more help than she was getting. She was living alone, with no surviving close family, and her health was failing. Someone needed to help her, but as I said, she did not have any close family or any friends to help out.

     People sometimes have a funny reaction when I mention corporate trustees. They seem to get a picture of a person who sits in their office making financial decisions all the time. Yes, they do that, but they do so much more than that if necessary.

     In that particular situation, I called Constance Moore at Commerce Trust Company. Connie is a kind of a geriatric adviser. In addition to being a trust officer, she is an Advanced Professional Certified Care Manager, trained to help clients navigate the maze of elder care. Like many trust officers, she investigates retirement facilities, nursing homes, home health services, and the like to insure quality. She is constantly checking and rechecking facilities, particularly when there is a change in ownership or management. She knows where to get the best value for their customers’ money and has a goal of helping to improve their quality of life. In this particular situation, she was able to find a great facility that worked wonderfully for my client.

     Corporate trustees provide all kinds of non-financial services. Kathleen Selinger at Central Trust told me about one of their customers who lives alone in a big house. She has family, but they are all busy with their own lives. I am seeing that more and more with families. If there are children, they may live in a different state or they may just be too busy with their own lives. I am also seeing a lot of people who don’t have any kids to step in when necessary. In these cases, the person is often alone. Anyway, Kathleen told me that with one of their larger clients, she often goes by and sorts her mail with her. The client’s eyesight is failing a little, but she also just likes the company.

     I heard one of the most heartwarming stories from Rich Arnold with The Private Bank. One of their clients had a vacation home in Florida. One time when she was down there, she suffered a stroke and was admitted to the hospital. When she was well enough, they brought her back to St. Louis.

     The problem was that when the client went to Florida, she took her beloved cat with her. When she came back to St. Louis, they couldn’t just leave the cat there for a neighbor to look after her.Someone had to go get the cat. So one of the trust officers flew to Florida, rented a car, picked up the cat, and drove back to St. Louis for a joyful reunion. Trust officers get all of the glory jobs, don’t they?

     As I mentioned, there are a lot of older people who for one reason or another don’t have family to look after them and help. As baby boomers age, we’re probably going to see that more often. Although corporate trustees are not the solution to every problem, under the right circumstances, they can be a real life saver. Yes, they provide great financial services, but they also provide much more than that. They can provide cat retrieval services too, and who wouldn’t want that?

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Fred Vilbig - Thursday, June 15, 2017

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     Sometimes my clients just get too emotional! What do I mean? Read on.

     In my last column, I wrote about some of the general issues involved in selling your business as a part of your retirement plan: who are your buyers; how do you value your business; and how is the sale financed? These are all kind of objective questions that can be very deliberately considered. But many times, they’re not.

     Where I run into problems with clients is when they are overly anxious or excited. They let their emotions get the better of them.For instance, when buying a business, you need to be careful to make sure that you are actually buying what you think you are buying, nothing more and nothing less.This is called “due diligence.”

     A good example of this would be real estate. Property titles are transferred though deeds that need to be recorded to be effective.You and I think about land in terms of property addresses.However, real estate is conveyed using legal descriptions.The legal descriptions can be lots in subdivisions or what are called “metes and bounds” descriptions – that’s the kind of thing that says “143.3 feet SSW from the old iron rod in the middle of Min Street.”Out in the country, you might have a legal description that reads like “the NW ¼ of the SW ½ of Section 1, Township 35, Range 13.”If you can tell me where that property is, you are much better at real estate than I am.

     Real estate also brings with it other questions. How do you know what the environmental status of the property is? Do you really know that the seller owns the property? Are there any mortgages or liens on the property? Are the buildings in good condition or are the problems just patched up? And if there are buildings, do you know if they are built to code?

     With regard to vehicles and equipment, you have similar questions. How do you know the condition or whether there are liens against them? You need to ask for maintenance records, and if there aren’t any, you need a thorough inspection.

     The business may have a lot of “good will.” This basically means it is not asset heavy but still has a good cash flow. A law practice or an accounting firm is a good example of this. In that case, you have to rely on financial statements. Do you know if they are compiled, reviewed, or audited, and do you know the difference?And even if the financials are reliable, can you understand them?People go to college to learn how to read them.

     On the Seller’s side, there is a different set of concerns. Sellers basically want to get their money and get out of town (sometimes literally). But buyers want all kinds of proof regarding the assets they are buying.The seller will probably have to dig into his or her records to prove all kinds of things.The problem with this is that you will be disclosing all of the warts of your business (and all businesses have warts). You need to make sure that the buyer has to keep that private and that they can’t use that information against you if the deal falls through.You need to get a non-disclosure agreement (commonly referred to as an “NDA”) from the potential buyer even before you start sharing information.

     As I mentioned in the last column, one of the biggest problems a seller may have to face is where the buyer can’t come up with financing. If a bank is unwilling to make a loan for the entire amount or the buyer can’t get a loan at all, the seller may have to finance some or all of the purchase price. The first question is whether the buyer is credit-worthy. IF you trust the buyer, how do you make sure you will continue to deal with him or her? Is the obligation assignable? You could end up having to rely on someone you don’t even know. Even if the contract is not assignable, what happens if the current buyer sells his or her business, so again you are stuck with someone you don’t even know.

     Then there’s the question of how to secure the loan.This is like the mortgage on your home. No bank is going to lend you money without having something backing up your promise to repay. You shouldn’t either.

     But like I said, clients can be the worst. They get blinded by the opportunity – whether it’s the business itself or the prospect of getting bought out – and they throw caution to the wind. As I’ve mentioned before, a client’s business is often his or her retirement fund. Clients need to be very careful to protect themselves. If something seems too good to be true, it probably is. It is hard to keep emotions in check, but an emotional sale is a bad sale.

     Caveat emptor! But also, Caveat venditor!

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Selling the Business

Fred Vilbig - Friday, June 02, 2017



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     I grew up in Dallas, Texas, where my grandfather owned a construction company. It was 100 years old. He had inherited it from his father, who had inherited it from his father. A family business surviving through three generations is not unheard of, it is extremely rare. Then along came my grandmother.

     When my grandfather died in 1976, his business was worth the current equivalent of almost $5 million. My grandmother could have sold the business to the highest bidder, either in a stock sale or an asset sale. However, for all of her wonderful qualities, she was not a businesswoman. She simply liquidated the assets. She sold the bulldozers, the scrapers, the maintainers, and all of the other hard assets, basically taking pennies on the dollar. She let the name and all of that built up goodwill just evaporate. I don’t know exactly what was lost, but I would estimate that it could have been as much as 75% of the value of the business.

     For many business owners, this would be an unimaginable tragedy. Since owners typically pump every available resource into their businesses, they do not have a substantial 401(k) or SEP or any other kind of retirement savings. Their business is their retirement. However, that may be a problem.

     Over the next 10 to 15 years, it is estimated that over 12 million privately owned businesses will change hands because they are owned by baby boomers. Some analysts are concerned that so many businesses for sale at one time may flood the market and depress values – good for buyers, but bad for sellers. Careful business planning is critical, but so many times, business owners are too busy to plan. That is a mistake.

     In planning to sell a business, there are a number of factors that need to be considered. First and foremost, who are your potential buyers? Sometimes inside sales can net more because the buyers are familiar with the business. Is there a family member in the business? If not, is there one or several key employees who might be interested in buying the business?

     If there is a possible inside buyer, how will they pay for it? Do they have cash? Typically, they do not. Can they get a loan? Does SBA financing work for them? Is the owner willing to take back some or all of the purchase price?

     If the inside sale doesn’t work, how do you find good third-party buyers? There may be competitors lurking around waiting to snatch up your business in order to gain a larger market share. Or, there may be individuals who are just interested in owning their own business. Trying to identify them can be a challenge. Sometimes it is best to talk to business brokers, but how do you select the best broker for your type of business?

     And then there is the question of valuation. Businesses can be valued on hard assets and/or cash flows. Some businesses can have what is called a “strategic value” to a particular buyer (for instance, a competitor who is trying to gain market share) which may be more than the strict appraised value. In any event, business owners need to be realistic in setting a price for their businesses. Many times owners overvalue their businesses. If the owner is working with a broker, the broker can help to set the value. If it is an inside sale to a family member or to one or more key employees, then the company accountant may be able to help establish a value.

     In any event, the sale of the business will have a huge impact on the business owner and his or her family. As I said, careful consideration needs to be given to all these factors. Otherwise, you could end up with a liquidation and the loss of years of hard work, like my family, and that is not a good thing.

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 Check out Fred's other BLOG post on business planning. His articles: Business Planning I and Business Planning II are worth a few minutes to read. You may know many of the key points in these articles it's worth reviewing them, especially if you're planning to buy or sell a business or separate from your business partner.  


Successor Trustee Boot Camp

Fred Vilbig - Monday, May 22, 2017



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     Maybe it’s a sign that my clients are “maturing.” I’m getting more calls now from their children. Mom and dad or both are acting a little strange; their bills are not getting paid; they have to go into the hospital or nursing home and decisions need to be made; or they have both died. Typically these calls come from the child who has been put in charge of things. Mom and dad may have written a will and/or a trust, and that child has been named as the person in charge (the “fiduciary”). And they don’t know what to do.

     The duties of a fiduciary vary widely depending upon the situation. Mom and dad may just be losing mental capacity. We can all be forgetful, but sometimes people get dangerously forgetful. Bills can become seriously delinquent. They may get lost when out driving or walking around. They may not know how to dress for the weather. Prescribed medicines may become too complicated to administer. Although everyone wants to maintain their own independence, there comes a time when that isn’t reasonable. So what do you do?

     And when mom and dad get to the end of their lives, someone may need to make difficult medical decisions. People cavalierly say, “just go on and pull the plug,” but actually doing it is another matter entirely. And then there is the funeral to handle.

     After mom and dad have died, there is an asset cleanup to do. What do you do about jointly held assets? What about insurance policies, brokerage accounts, or bank accounts with beneficiary designations? What about the IRA? What about jointly held real estate? We’ve had clients ignore these things for years, and fixing them later can be a lot of work.

     If a person only has a will and dies owning property in his or her name alone, then probate is necessary. Even when mom and dad have created a trust, assets sometimes get overlooked. Probate can be a scary idea for people, but sometimes it’s a necessary evil. One of the things that the fiduciary needs to do after mom and dad have died is to determine whether all of the assets were properly put into a trust if there was one. If any assets were held in a decedent’s name alone, then those assets are going to have to be probated. That can be overwhelming for some people.

     If mom and dad did create a trust, there are a lot of questions that come up regarding trust administration. Under the law, a trustee has to provide beneficiaries with an accounting. The trustee needs to start with a beginning balance which requires an inventory. Most people don’t have an accounting background, so this can be quite a challenge. Just preparing the inventory can be overwhelming.

     There is a lot involved when a son or daughter is named as the trustee, personal representative, or attorney-in-fact, under mom or dad’s estate planning documents. As I often tell clients, these are not normal things to deal with, although in our practice they tend to happen on an almost daily basis.

     For that reason, I am putting together a seminar to discuss what’s involved in being a fiduciary. We are calling it the “SUCCESSOR TRUSTEE BOOT CAMP” (although we’ll cover other fiduciary roles as well). The seminar will be held on JUNE 15 at 7 PM at the SCHNUCKS MARKET on Kehrs Mill at Clarkson in Ballwin. Click here to register for the free Successor Trustee Boot Camp.

This seminar should be of interest to anyone who is named in estate planning documents as a personal representative or a successor trustee. We look forward to seeing you there.