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Benefits of Moving to a New Home When a Loved One Passes
Fred Vilbig - Friday, October 05, 2018
By guest writer: Lucille Rosett from The Bereaved
Your loved one has passed away and your house is full of memories. At times, they are a comfort; at others, these memories serve as a reminder of the way thing were. You see your loved one’s clothing still hanging in the closet and momentarily forget they aren’t coming back for them. It’s a difficult situation and one that can make it harder to move on and actually heal. Moving into a new home can help you do just that while giving you a foundation upon which to build new memories.
Selling Your Home
The first step to selling your home is to find a professional realtor. Realtors take care of all the legal details so you don’t have to worry. A good realtor will evaluate your home and its market value. Realtors provide advice on how to stage your home so potential buyers will see it in the most positive light. Realtor Mag reports that “selling a home requires dozens of forms, reports, disclosures and other technical documents.” It’s easy for sellers to feel overwhelmed if they try to maneuver through the complicated process without expert assistance. Before listing your home, review home prices in your area. The median listing price for a home in St. Louis is $170,000.
Your Loved One’s Belongings
Letting go of your loved one’s belongings is one of the most difficult tasks you’ll be confronted with. At first, you may feel comforted when you open the closet and find your partner’s old jacket hanging there. Or perhaps it eases your pain when you find their favorite college sweatshirt folded in the drawer. But eventually, these items become a constant reminder that that part of your life is over. According to Next Avenue, “you begin to wonder if keeping all those objects around you is serving a purpose” or dragging out the grieving process.
When making the tough decision to let go of your loved one’s things, it’s important to hold onto only those that bring you happiness. The Tribune reports you should keep items that evoke beautiful memories and get rid of those with negative emotions attached to them. Instead of keeping your loved one’s clothing, cut pieces from them and create a quilt. Take photos of items to preserve in an album before removing them from your home. Donate gently used items to charity or give them to friends. Don’t feel like you have to rush the process. Sort through their personal effects when you are emotionally ready but don’t wait until the last minute.
Packing and Moving
Begin the packing process before you even find a buyer. This will give you enough time and prevent a great deal of stress. Consider hiring professional movers so you don’t have to worry about this enormous job when you’re still grieving for your loved one. Movers take almost all of the work out of your hands. Many moving companies will even do the packing for you. Moving heavy furniture and boxes can lead to injury if you don’t know what you’re doing. Call professionals who are accustomed to heavy lifting on a regular basis. While the packing service is boxing up your things, you can focus on other moving tasks such as setting up utilities or notifying the post office of your change of address.
When a loved one who shared your home passes away, being in the house without him or her is an emotional roller coaster. If your house has too many memories, it may be time for a change of scenery. Moving into a new home can help you deal with the grief of losing a loved one and provide you with the strength you need to start a new chapter in your life.
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